RECOGNIZING WHEN YOU ARE IN FEAR BASED CONSCIOUSNESS
All the possible thoughts and feelings which represent fear-survival based thinking cannot be listed here. The following are a representative sample. By understanding the following, you will figure out the rest of your personal fear based thoughts, as you continue to be aware. Anyone of the following thoughts can be appropriate and even necessary and can guide proper action. But when you find you have a pattern, a consistency of seeing things through these thoughts, you have and continue to create, a fear based, self protective consciousness.
This could be considered Daily Unconscious Fearing rather than Daily Conscious Loving
From the less obvious to the obvious and not in an exact order:
You believe that you are not enough, just the way you are.
You regularly try to impose your opinion on others.
You don't believe that other people's opinions are acceptable for them, so they should see things the way you do.
You feel like you are missing out.
You think you are not OK because you don’t have something someone else has.
You believe others are better than you.
You are discomforted by your sexuality or you are repulsed by others requests for common sensual behavior.
You resent others for having more.
You focus you attention on the faults of others.
You regularly think about how others have done bad things to you. You regularly feel like you are being victimized.
What average people find good, you find bad.
You don’t know how to be happy.
You spend a large percentage of your time thinking about things that bother you.
You regularly talk about the problems you have.
You feel self conscious or worried around others.
You are cynical.
You are a pessimist.
You regularly make fun of other people.
You enjoy fighting verbally and emotionally with people.
It is more important to you to win at all cost or cut the other person off, rather than to "lose face."
You intentionally hurt others who have not directly hurt you.
You feel fear when there is no present danger.
You are afraid to be close with people.
You want people to fear you.
You are afraid to love other people.
You are afraid to be loved. When people come close to you, you move away or block them from getting to know you.
You regularly feel like you are bad.
You are intolerant of others who are not threatening you.
You believe that the world is a bad, scary place.
You can turn this around by consciously turning your attention to Loving.